Eric wrote:
> My problem is that is not what Richard
>said. He said one should not want to look at the *evidence*,
>presumably of some event[s] that would upset you (and the marriage).
>I think it would be far better to examine, understand and forgive.
>(the axiom is that if they've been cheating, it's cause your not
>living up to your half of the bargain; and should therefore find out
>what's wrong so you can fix it!)
It always has to be about _you_, doesn't it, Eric?
-Prof. Tim