> > Withdrew naked stuff.....
>
> Yeah, I think a better custom would be to take a month long road-trip
> with the person before really giving each other "eternal" promises.
Not a bad idea. In my case, I took a few weekend road trips with my
now-fiance, requiring 5-hour drives each way to set up a tent in the rain,
and I also helped him move, twice (and he helped me move too), before
this weekend when we moved in together. We still like each other. I
think we're pretty well tested.
--Eva :)