Brett wrote:<clip>
I'm commited to defending the truth as I see it. Why is that destructive?The NatemanI think you are over-reacting to the "argument" , or I am under-reacting;
either way, we saw the example differently. I have no committment to"
become a success (paraphrased)", so I am not concerned with that specific
issue--though I'll answer to that point, too. Not having a committment, I
don't feel the need to protect myself from this "trap" or defend myself by
"destroy[ing]" it. I am implying that you are defensive because you are
committed and therefore you destroy; <clip>